HNT#51--Wanna control her? Try to hold the sun

I have been a very busy lady. I haven't had a good opportunity to view your posts in over a week! I'm always amazed at how many sexy people still come and see me when I'm clearly being such a lame-ass about my blogging. In truth, I've been staying off the computer more and spending time with the boys, going out to visit friends, and occasionally having friends pop over to my place. I also tend to get caught up in chatty-chat and it can really suck up a lot of time. That's not to say I don't enjoy the chats, but I really must stay focused.

Guess what?

I've decided to get even more involved in Relay For Life 2010. I've joined the committee and will now be the Co-Bitch in Charge of the Survivor dinner/reception and first lap of Relay! Yay! I will post more about this over the weekend, but I am extremely excited about it. All part of my master plan to get out there, do new things and meet new people. My wonderful friend lil mama is also a committee head and I've been helping her for the past 3 years now. Because my portion ends shortly after 7pm, I am still able to help with the luminaries, which I really love. As some of you may know, I lost my mother to cancer when I was 13 years old, so it's a cause near and dear to my heart.

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My Favourite Things (a re-post i thought you might enjoy)

To the tune of "My Favorite Things" from "The Sound of Music"

A partner who'll call me his little sex kitten
Warm sunny days that require no mittens
Pretty pink boxes of bright shiny bling
These are a few of my favorite things.

Sexytime, lovers and pink leather paddles
Spanking my ass now be quiet, don't tattle!
Butterflies gliding on colorful wings
These are a few of my favorite things.

Sleek, stylish outfits and open toed sandals
Candy and chocolate and sweet smelling candles
Sipping a beer on the deck in the spring
These are a few of my favorite things...

When there's pimples

and bad hair days

When I'm feeling sad

I simply remember my favorite things
and then I don't feel so baaaaaaaaad!

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I've been spending time thinking about what I want lately. What I need in future relationships--what my expectations are, and what I'm willing to accept as well. I'm still in no great rush and make very little effort to meet new people, yet it's been on my mind.

I am a woman of great passion. When I enjoy something, I REALLY enjoy it. When I love someone, I pour my heart and soul into it. I am loving and generous with my time, but I do not take kindly to having someone tell me what to do. I suppose that's why I love being single. There is no one here to judge or criticize my choices and I'm diggin it.

As you all know from previous posts, I am itching for a new lover in my life. Mostly the idea of new exploration and all of that. I'll get there. I just know it!

While out shopping with my son one night, I came across these funky hot pink skinny jeans. I am so practical that I normally don't buy anything that isn't a basic colour because I just don't wear it enough, but these were on sale and I just had to have them. Didn't help that my first born was encouraging me either. *oh mom, you just got paid, you deserve it*


*click to smack it*

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HNT#50--Tinkerbell Exposed

Well, I'm at the end of my "Tinkerbell" series. I really love these pictures and enjoyed sharing them with you. I can definitely still be a princess even without the costume. Sometimes that's just how it is.

You know when you are taking timer pictures and you *think* the timer is on, but it is in fact not on? My click was one such picture. Sometimes those spontaneous shots seem to make the most impact, don't you think? Looks almost like you can scoop right in there, doesn't it? Don't know what the hell I'm talking about? Click the picture and tell me I'm wrong. I double-dog-dare ya!


*click for my wardrobe malfunction*

Don't forget to visit Osbasso and let all the other folks know your post is up. :)



It's fun over here as well...



I've also decided to include the totally awesome collage that Barefoot Dreamer made for me. She's got talent for many things, that lady.

happy thursday!

Curves

I remember the first time I kissed a girl. Really kissed her I mean--more than just a peck on the cheek or lips. We were visiting with a friend one night. Drinking tequila and preparing for a night out dancing. He left us with a subtle message of how sexy it would be for she and I to kiss. We didn't do it then, just laughed it off, but by the end of the night I'd considered it in my mind. Hmmmm

I've always felt enticed by women. Some that I know, others just from tv or whatever *and now here on my blog of course*. I think the female body is so gorgeous--so many CURVES that I want to touch. I've been to strip clubs before, but always to watch female strippers. It has come up very infrequently in my life, but I've kissed some girls...and I liked it.

We were all dressed up and having a great time at the club. We shared our time between drinking and dancing. The dance floor is a great place to people watch, and examine the various body types in movement. My friend had the most beautiful curves. Her waist, so pronounced. Large boobies shaking as she moved. I'd always noticed, not in a lustful way, but because I really do think she's beautiful.

We closed down the bar and proceeded to my sister's apartment for the night. We chatted about the night, the men we saw...all the normal things. We got ready for bed and went into the spare room. The lights went out and we continued to chat and giggle a little before closing our eyes. We decided to do a little back tickling *trust me, girl or boy, if you are sleeping with me, i'm bound to ask for back tickling*. While running my fingers down her back and on her side, my hand lightly grazed her breast. So soft and full. I ran my hand again over the same spot as she shifted her arm slightly in response, allowing more access. I caressed her breasts and she turned to face me and we kissed. So sweet and warm, that kiss.

I was so curious. It was so beautiful to trace the lines of a woman's soft body. All those luscious curves and dips. We shed our light clothing and explored more thoroughly. I touched her the way I like to be touched, adjusting to her body, reading her responses to my hands and tongue. Felling her moisture on my fingers as I stroked her pussy lightly, entering her and hearing her sigh. Running my hands on her hips and thighs, feeling her body so close to my own. It was an interesting exploration, something I had secretly wondered about long before that. Not with her specifically, but in a general sort of way.

Our excitement grew and we played until we were spent. It was late and we both had to get home the next day at a reasonable time. We spoke little of that night but allowed to to happen again on a couple of occasions. I'll never forget her lovely, feminine CURVES.



Here are links to all the other sexy bloggers participating in this months group post. Thanks to Kimberly over at "your errant wife" who sends us the info each month, and to the Duchess of "the duchess is sexy" who came up with the theme this time.

Lilly
Gray
Aurore
Petal
Salt and Pepper
Britni
Amy Liz
Mr B
Dave
Panser Bjorne
Bri
Ms. Scarlett
Lolita Vida
FG Sakes
Hubman
Library Vixen
Barefoot Dreamer
Topaz
Duchess
Kimberly

Your monthly dose of simple truths

Every moment of worry weakens the soul for its daily combat

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Duty is a matter of the mind. Commitment is a matter of the heart and soul.

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Envy is to your heart what blindness is to your eye.

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I can guarantee you that you'll never get dizzy by doing too many good turns.

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Once a day you should look in the mirror to see if what stands between you and happiness isn't you.

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Girl to her date: "Isn't it romantic! It's just like Romeo and Juliet - my father hates you."

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If you have what you want, you're rich. If you can do without it, you're richer.

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Give yourself a heart examination today, because it's important for you to know what's in the centre.

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Being willing is much more important than being able.

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In the long run, the pessimist may be proved right, but the optimist has a better time on the trip.

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The smartest person in a business is the one who has hired people who are smarter.

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We all need to seek tranquillity without tranquillizers.

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Shh. Complain quietly.

HNT#49--Tinkerbell's Desire

Sometimes I am a bit of a princess. What I mean is, I really enjoy special treatment, although I am entirely reciprocal to this. Yep. Sure am.

If I could wave my magic wand and get what I want sexually, these are my requests:

Don't boss me around--it will not fly. There are circumstance where I am perfectly willing to comply with requests, but not if you are demanding and rude. Fuck that.

Please arrive clean. If you know we are about to have an encounter, I expect you to have washed your body prior to seeing me. Now, I'm all for impromptu sex, but if you KNOW you are coming...make the extra effort.

Be willing to please me, as I will you. Equal exchange sounds fair, yes?

Do not EVER call me a slut. I do not accept it. I know there is a time and place for everything, however, that word doesn't sit well with me. Refrain.

Be open to adventure. It'll make things much, much more fun.

Certainly there are more points to make, but I think you've got the idea. I take my sexual encounters very seriously and like to make the very best of the opportunities I have. Life's too short to accept less than I deserve and less than I wish to settle for. I just wanted to be clear about that.

I just love being a fairy princess. God knows I really enjoy getting what I want out of life. Scroll down if you have a moment. I'm very excited about the posts below this one. :)

happy thursday everyone!


*click for an invitation*

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Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009

Holy shit I'm on the fucking list! What? That's so flattering and amazing, really. I have lots of wonderful friends here who tell me that I write well, that they enjoy visiting my blog, but I never thought for a second that I would be on a list such as this. I feel very honoured to be among such fine people.

After a little blog flipping, I got to the original post over here at "Between My Sheets"...man, have I got some reading to do! I'm always in such a rush, so thanks to AAG for leading me to Rori. :)

So, here it is. I hope the links are still intact!

And now, without further ado, the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009:

1. Coquitten (website)


2. Alexa (website)


3. AAG (website)


4. Bad, Bad Girl (website)


5. TBK (website)


6. Mistress Matisse (website)


7. Miss Mia (website)


8. Thursday’s Child (website)


9. Roger (website)


10. Sinclair (website)


11. Sylvanus…


12. and Mina (website)


13. Natt Nightly (website)


14. Jake (website)


15. Lyn (website)


16. Adriana Ravenlust (website)


17. Sexy Sadie (website)


18. Shay (website)


19. Lilly (website)


20. Nadia (website)


21. Joan Price (website)


22. Madison (website)


23. Anal Amy (website)


24. Z (website)


25. Essin Em (website)


26. Easily Aroused (website)


27. Blacksilk (website)


28. Sleeping Dreamer (website)


29. Melen…


30. and rayne…


31. and Master KKT…


32. and cinnamon (website)


33. That Toy Chick (website)


34. Red (website)


35. Tom Allen (website)


36. Vix (website)


37. Coy Pink (website)


38. Lady Pandorah (website)


39. BackseatBoohoo (website)


40. Epiphora (website)


41. Aurore (website)


42. Miss KissThis (website)


43. Storm (website)


44. Ron Jazz (website)


45. Josie Jacobs (website)


46. Distracted (website)


47. Deviant Dyke (website)


48. Joanna Cake (website)


49. Sapphire Jay (website)


50. Sarah (website)


51. Kimberly (website)


52. Duchess (website)


53. Figleaf (website)


54. The Caged Songbird (website)


55. Kaya (website)


56. Ms. Justine (website)


57. Luka (website)


58. Ang (website)


59. Perverted Negress (website)


60. Harlot (website)


61. Vixen (website)


62. Anakan…


63. and Padme (website)


64. Wilhemina (website)


65. Axe (website)


66. Amber (website)


67. Lucy Vonne (website)


68. Rogue (website)


69. SSS (website)


70. Kyle (website)


71. Amorous Rocker (website)


72. Sera (website)


73. Lolita Wolf (website)


74. Elle (website)


75. Scarlet St Syr (website)


76. Charlotte Thorpe (website)


77. An Unassuming Girl (website)


78. Maymay (website)


79. True Pleasure (website)


80. Bad Influence Girl (website)


81. Diva (website)


82. Raven Quince (website)


83. Autumn (website) <----it's me! it's me!


84. Vanilla Impaired (website)


85. Wil (website)


86. Robin (website)


87. Panthera Pardus (website)


88. Ell (website)


89. Miss Communication…


90. and Captain Pants…


91. and A.E. (website)


92. Roxy (website)


93. Secretly Naughty (website)


94. Abby Williams (website)


95. Subheart (website)


96. Sequoia Redd (website)


97. Innocent Loveboy (website)


98. Liljgrrl…


99. and Nawa*G (website)


100. YOU! As always that last person on the list is you. Please, please, please leave a comment below promoting your own blog (or the blog of someone you love). Links are welcome, as long as they lead us to a sex-related blog, not a retail website or porn aggregation site.

**special thanks to vixen who sent me all the links**

Little bucks and tails of ten inches

As I said in a previous post, I had a long telephone conversation with the glassblower last week (1 hour and 48 minutes to be exact). She called to ask for my opinion about a few things. Here's the sitch:

A sexy, free spirited artist living in a remote location, blowing glass treasures as her source of income, has a dilemma. Her love interests always have to leave. They stay a while, but eventually have to go elsewhere for work or travel. She recently said goodbye a special lover and friend. He's not gone forever *says he*, but he has left for several months. He says he wants to come back in the spring but doesn't want her to be lonely. He asked her to be sure to have fun, find a fwb to keep her company and if she's still single when he gets back, he would enjoy being with her again. Over the last month, the phone calls have decreased and his messages have become more brief and signed with "xoxo". She loves him and misses him, but is already wondering if it's a good idea to wait for him, or to simply go on with her life and see what happens. hmmm...



She's got a friend. Someone she shares history with and has affection for. She doesn't feel that he is "the one" but he makes her happy when they spend time together. The lover who left is not fond of this guy. Not because he doesn't like him personally, but because he cares for our beautiful glassblower. This is the dilemma...does she seek comfort in the arms of a man who she deems a wonderful lover or stay away to keep from upsetting the man who has left?

And here's the thing...

This friend is a stallion.



As we were talking she was telling me how he invited her to spend the weekend with him and she wasn't sure if she should go. I asked her what drew her to him and this was her response:

"Well, he's like...the best lover I've ever had. He's 10 or 11 inches. AND I CAN GET IT ALLLL IN!"

*ohmyfuckinggod! holyfuckdoyoushare?* *ahem* "Did you just say 10 or 11 inches? Holy shit girl, what are you waiting for? Can I write about this?"

"Sure you can *laughter* and when I get back maybe I can write you an email and share the details."

How much fun is this people? As you can imagine, I was totally looking forward to the details. I really am a very lucky girl to get to share this moment with her. Yay!

Fastforward to last night when we chatted again.

Autumn: "So, did you have a good weekend?"

Glassblower: "Ohh Autumn, I had so much fun. Can I ask you something? I figure since you have a sex blog and all, you may know the answer. What is a "squirter"?

Autumn: *grinning real big* "Well I can definitely tell you cause I'm a "squirter".

I proceeded to describe how during the climax, I physically ejaculate fluid and then she stopped me and said...

Glassblower: "Ohhhh ok, yes. I know what you mean. It's happened to me a few times before."

Autumn: "Well perfect! Yay us girl. That's awesome."

I continued by saying that it's a rather mental procedure as well. If you are feeling very at ease and comfortable, it's much easier. Eventually you can reach a point where you control it. You can determine whether or not it's going to happen. It can be a truly amazing experience. Over and over again...but I digress

Power of Pussy *PoP for short*--just a small portion of "the power" but part of it all. I'll post about this more at a later date.

Our long locked beauty had a truly sensual weekend. She succumbed to him completely, allowing him to take the lead, to shift her as he pleased. She awoke in the night to his warm touch, removing clothing, binding her withe her shirt so she could/would simply relax and enjoy his touch and sweet caress. Followed, of course by the deep penetration of his magnificent cock. This experience was more than lustful, it was spiritual and beautiful. Trust is a powerful thing.