Friday, November 13, 2009

Your monthly dose of simple truths

Every moment of worry weakens the soul for its daily combat

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Duty is a matter of the mind. Commitment is a matter of the heart and soul.

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Envy is to your heart what blindness is to your eye.

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I can guarantee you that you'll never get dizzy by doing too many good turns.

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Once a day you should look in the mirror to see if what stands between you and happiness isn't you.

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Girl to her date: "Isn't it romantic! It's just like Romeo and Juliet - my father hates you."

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If you have what you want, you're rich. If you can do without it, you're richer.

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Give yourself a heart examination today, because it's important for you to know what's in the centre.

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Being willing is much more important than being able.

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In the long run, the pessimist may be proved right, but the optimist has a better time on the trip.

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The smartest person in a business is the one who has hired people who are smarter.

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We all need to seek tranquillity without tranquillizers.

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Shh. Complain quietly.

Thursday, November 12, 2009

HNT#49--Tinkerbell's Desire

Sometimes I am a bit of a princess. What I mean is, I really enjoy special treatment, although I am entirely reciprocal to this. Yep. Sure am.

If I could wave my magic wand and get what I want sexually, these are my requests:

Don't boss me around--it will not fly. There are circumstance where I am perfectly willing to comply with requests, but not if you are demanding and rude. Fuck that.

Please arrive clean. If you know we are about to have an encounter, I expect you to have washed your body prior to seeing me. Now, I'm all for impromptu sex, but if you KNOW you are coming...make the extra effort.

Be willing to please me, as I will you. Equal exchange sounds fair, yes?

Do not EVER call me a slut. I do not accept it. I know there is a time and place for everything, however, that word doesn't sit well with me. Refrain.

Be open to adventure. It'll make things much, much more fun.


Certainly there are more points to make, but I think you've got the idea. I take my sexual encounters very seriously and like to make the very best of the opportunities I have. Life's too short to accept less than I deserve and less than I wish to settle for. I just wanted to be clear about that.

I just love being a fairy princess. God knows I really enjoy getting what I want out of life. Scroll down if you have a moment. I'm very excited about the posts below this one. :)

happy thursday everyone!


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Go see Osbasso for more half nekkid fun.

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Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009

Holy shit I'm on the fucking list! What? That's so flattering and amazing, really. I have lots of wonderful friends here who tell me that I write well, that they enjoy visiting my blog, but I never thought for a second that I would be on a list such as this. I feel very honoured to be among such fine people.

After a little blog flipping, I got to the original post over here at "Between My Sheets"...man, have I got some reading to do! I'm always in such a rush, so thanks to AAG for leading me to Rori. :)

So, here it is. I hope the links are still intact!


And now, without further ado, the Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2009:



  1. Coquitten (website)

  2. Alexa (website)

  3. AAG (website)

  4. Bad, Bad Girl (website)

  5. TBK (website)

  6. Mistress Matisse (website)

  7. Miss Mia (website)

  8. Thursday’s Child (website)

  9. Roger (website)

  10. Sinclair (website)

  11. Sylvanus…

  12. and Mina (website)

  13. Natt Nightly (website)

  14. Jake (website)

  15. Lyn (website)

  16. Adriana Ravenlust (website)

  17. Sexy Sadie (website)

  18. Shay (website)

  19. Lilly (website)

  20. Nadia (website)

  21. Joan Price (website)

  22. Madison (website)

  23. Anal Amy (website)

  24. Z (website)

  25. Essin Em (website)

  26. Easily Aroused (website)

  27. Blacksilk (website)

  28. Sleeping Dreamer (website)

  29. Melen…

  30. and rayne…

  31. and Master KKT…

  32. and cinnamon (website)

  33. That Toy Chick (website)

  34. Red (website)

  35. Tom Allen (website)

  36. Vix (website)

  37. Coy Pink (website)

  38. Lady Pandorah (website)

  39. BackseatBoohoo (website)

  40. Epiphora (website)

  41. Aurore (website)

  42. Miss KissThis (website)

  43. Storm (website)

  44. Ron Jazz (website)

  45. Josie Jacobs (website)

  46. Distracted (website)

  47. Deviant Dyke (website)

  48. Joanna Cake (website)

  49. Sapphire Jay (website)

  50. Sarah (website)

  51. Kimberly (website)

  52. Duchess (website)

  53. Figleaf (website)

  54. The Caged Songbird (website)

  55. Kaya (website)

  56. Ms. Justine (website)

  57. Luka (website)

  58. Ang (website)

  59. Perverted Negress (website)

  60. Harlot (website)

  61. Vixen (website)

  62. Anakan…

  63. and Padme (website)

  64. Wilhemina (website)

  65. Axe (website)

  66. Amber (website)

  67. Lucy Vonne (website)

  68. Rogue (website)

  69. SSS (website)

  70. Kyle (website)

  71. Amorous Rocker (website)

  72. Sera (website)

  73. Lolita Wolf (website)

  74. Elle (website)

  75. Scarlet St Syr (website)

  76. Charlotte Thorpe (website)

  77. An Unassuming Girl (website)

  78. Maymay (website)

  79. True Pleasure (website)

  80. Bad Influence Girl (website)

  81. Diva (website)

  82. Raven Quince (website)

  83. Autumn (website) <----it's me! it's me!

  84. Vanilla Impaired (website)

  85. Wil (website)

  86. Robin (website)

  87. Panthera Pardus (website)

  88. Ell (website)

  89. Miss Communication…

  90. and Captain Pants…

  91. and A.E. (website)

  92. Roxy (website)

  93. Secretly Naughty (website)

  94. Abby Williams (website)

  95. Subheart (website)

  96. Sequoia Redd (website)

  97. Innocent Loveboy (website)

  98. Liljgrrl…

  99. and Nawa*G (website)

  100. YOU! As always that last person on the list is you. Please, please, please leave a comment below promoting your own blog (or the blog of someone you love). Links are welcome, as long as they lead us to a sex-related blog, not a retail website or porn aggregation site.



**special thanks to vixen who sent me all the links**

Monday, November 9, 2009

Little bucks and tails of ten inches

As I said in a previous post, I had a long telephone conversation with the glassblower last week (1 hour and 48 minutes to be exact). She called to ask for my opinion about a few things. Here's the sitch:

A sexy, free spirited artist living in a remote location, blowing glass treasures as her source of income, has a dilemma. Her love interests always have to leave. They stay a while, but eventually have to go elsewhere for work or travel. She recently said goodbye a special lover and friend. He's not gone forever *says he*, but he has left for several months. He says he wants to come back in the spring but doesn't want her to be lonely. He asked her to be sure to have fun, find a fwb to keep her company and if she's still single when he gets back, he would enjoy being with her again. Over the last month, the phone calls have decreased and his messages have become more brief and signed with "xoxo". She loves him and misses him, but is already wondering if it's a good idea to wait for him, or to simply go on with her life and see what happens. hmmm...



She's got a friend. Someone she shares history with and has affection for. She doesn't feel that he is "the one" but he makes her happy when they spend time together. The lover who left is not fond of this guy. Not because he doesn't like him personally, but because he cares for our beautiful glassblower. This is the dilemma...does she seek comfort in the arms of a man who she deems a wonderful lover or stay away to keep from upsetting the man who has left?

And here's the thing...

This friend is a stallion.



As we were talking she was telling me how he invited her to spend the weekend with him and she wasn't sure if she should go. I asked her what drew her to him and this was her response:

"Well, he's like...the best lover I've ever had. He's 10 or 11 inches. AND I CAN GET IT ALLLL IN!"

*ohmyfuckinggod! holyfuckdoyoushare?* *ahem* "Did you just say 10 or 11 inches? Holy shit girl, what are you waiting for? Can I write about this?"

"Sure you can *laughter* and when I get back maybe I can write you an email and share the details."

How much fun is this people? As you can imagine, I was totally looking forward to the details. I really am a very lucky girl to get to share this moment with her. Yay!

Fastforward to last night when we chatted again.

Autumn: "So, did you have a good weekend?"

Glassblower: "Ohh Autumn, I had so much fun. Can I ask you something? I figure since you have a sex blog and all, you may know the answer. What is a "squirter"?

Autumn: *grinning real big* "Well I can definitely tell you cause I'm a "squirter".

I proceeded to describe how during the climax, I physically ejaculate fluid and then she stopped me and said...

Glassblower: "Ohhhh ok, yes. I know what you mean. It's happened to me a few times before."

Autumn: "Well perfect! Yay us girl. That's awesome."

I continued by saying that it's a rather mental procedure as well. If you are feeling very at ease and comfortable, it's much easier. Eventually you can reach a point where you control it. You can determine whether or not it's going to happen. It can be a truly amazing experience. Over and over again...but I digress

Power of Pussy *PoP for short*--just a small portion of "the power" but part of it all. I'll post about this more at a later date.

Our long locked beauty had a truly sensual weekend. She succumbed to him completely, allowing him to take the lead, to shift her as he pleased. She awoke in the night to his warm touch, removing clothing, binding her withe her shirt so she could/would simply relax and enjoy his touch and sweet caress. Followed, of course by the deep penetration of his magnificent cock. This experience was more than lustful, it was spiritual and beautiful. Trust is a powerful thing.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful

Beautiful--Eminem

Lately I've been hard to reach I've been too long on my own
Everybody has a private world
Where they can be alone
Are you calling me, are you trying to get through
Are you reaching out for me, like I'm reaching out for you

I'm just so fuckin' depressed I just can seem to get out this slump
If I could just get over this hump
But I need something to pull me out this dump I took my bruises, took my lumps
Fell down and I got right back up But I need that spark to get psyched back up
In order for me to pick that mic back up I don't know how or why or when
And I ended up in this position I'm in
I'm starting to feel distant again
So I decided just to pick this pen Up and tried to make an attempt to vent
But I just can't admit Or come to grips, with the fact that I may be done with rap
I need a new outlet I know some shits so hard to swallow And I just can't sit back and wallow
In my own sorrow But I know one fact I'll be one tough act to follow
One tough act to follow (Copy One) tough act to follow Here today, gone tomorrow
But you have to walk a thousand miles

In my shoes, just to see What it's like, to be me I'll be you, let's trade shoes
Just to see what it'd be like to Feel your pain, you feel mine Go inside each other's mind
Just to see what we find Look at shit through each other's eyes

But don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful OoOo They can all get fucked.
Just stay true to you sOoOoo Don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful
OoOo They can all get fucked. Just stay true to you

I think I'm starting to lose my sense of humor
Everything is so tense and gloom
I almost feel like I gotta check the temperature in the room Just as soon as I walk in
It's like all eyes on me So I try to avoid any eye contact
Cause if I do that then it opens a door to conversation
Like I want that... I'm not looking for extra attention
I just want to be just like you Blend in with the rest of the room
Maybe just point me to the closest restroom I don't need fucking man servant
Tryin to follow me around, and wipe my ass Laugh at every single joke I crack
And half of them ain't even funny like
Ahh Marshall, you're so funny man, you should be a comedian, god damn
Unfortunately I am, but I just hide behind the tears of a clown
So why don't you all sit down Listen to the tale I'm about to tell
Hell, we don't have to trade our shoes
And you don't have to walk no thousand miles

In my shoes, just to see What it's like, to be me
All be you, let's trade shoes
Just to see what I'd be like to
Feel your pain, you feel mine
Go inside each other's mind
Just to see what we find Look at shit through each other's eyes

But don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful
OoOo They can all get fucked.
Just stay true to you sOoOoo
Don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful
OoOo They can all get fucked. Just stay true to you sOoOoo

Nobody asked for life to deal us
With these bullshit hands they've delt
We have to take these cards ourselves
And flip them, don't expect no help
Now I could have either just
Sat on my ass and pissed and moaned
But take this situation in which I'm placed in
And get up and get my own
I was never the type of kid
To wait but I know to unpack his bags
Never sat on the porch and hoped and prayed
For a dad to show up who never did
I just wanted to fit in
Every single place
Every school I went
I dreamed of being that cool kid
Even if it meant acting stupid
Aunt Edna always told me
Keep making that face till it gets stuck like that
Meanwhile I'm just standing there
Holding my tongue up trying to talk like this
Till I stuck my tongue on the frozen stop sign poll at 8 years old
I learned my lesson and cause I wasn't tryin to impress my friends no more
But I already told you my whole life story
Not just based on my description
Cause where you see it from where you're sitting
Is probably 110% different
I guess we would have to walk a mile
In each other's shoes, at least
What size you where? I wear tens
Let's see if you can fit your feet

[Chorus]
In my shoes, just to see
What it's like, to be me
All be you, let's trade shoes
Just to see what I'd be like to

Feel your pain, you feel mine
Go inside each other's mind Just to see what we find
Look at shit through each other's eyes

But don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful
OoOo They can all get fucked.
Just stay true to you sOoOoo
Don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful
OoOo They can all get fucked.
Just stay true to you sOoOoo

Lately I've been hard to reach I've been too long on my own
Everybody has a private world Where they can be alone... sOoOoo
Are you calling me, are you trying to get through OoOo
Are you reaching out for me, I'm reaching out for you
sOoOoo Oo Oo

Yea... To my babies. Stay strong.
Daddy will be home soon
And to the rest of the world, god gave you the shoes
That fit you, so put em on and wear em
And be yourself man, be proud of who you are
Even if it sounds corny,
Don't ever let no one tell you, you ain't beautiful
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Yeah, I like rap, so what? We all have our things. This song really touched me the first time I heard the words. I somehow relate to it and I can sing almost the entire song along when I'm listening to it. :)

I'm feeling a bit down but I can't really explain why. I'm doing well, life is good. I generally feel pretty happy, but today? I just feel blue. I'll get over it I'm sure. I wish I had a really big hug. Kid hugs are lovely, but it's not what I am needing right now. *sigh*

Perhaps I'll write more later tonight.

Thursday, November 5, 2009

HNT#48--The shoes stay on~~Final chapter

Don't worry, I'll likely take more pictures while wearing these sexy black shoes. I simply cannot resist because I LOVES them so much. Based on the wonderful comments I received, there are many ladies out there that want my shoes AND my little school girl skirt. Should I be watching out for stalkers here or what?! tehehe

I am not exactly sure where I got this little skirt, but I do know that I paid less than $5 for it and it sat in the bottom of a dresser drawer for a very long time before I wore it. Sometimes I am a serious sucker for sale items. :)

You may have noticed that I added a link to my picture sidebar on the far left. I plan on doing some sex toy reviews for Eden Fantasys when I get my shit together and do a bit of reading over there. I've got to review a couple of toys I currently own first, then see where it goes from there. I am EXTREMELY enthusiastic about it and have to find some time next week to get started. Stay tuned for that if you would. Also, yesterday was my first blogiversary. Yay me! I'm in the best company and am so glad I have found this community of open minded people to share time with. My inner guilt gets to me sometimes when I am having a lull and don't feel like reading and posting. I want to thank you again sincerely for reading my words and adding luster to my life.

I'm still on the lookout for a sexy new lover. Gawd, it would be so much easier if he would just show up at my door, you know?

I had the most interesting conversation with the glassblower last night. Fuck, she's awesome! I gave her my link a while back and when a little situation of a sexual/relationship nature arose, she wanted to discuss with me. I'm composing in my mind but waiting for more details from her before posting. I've asked her if I can post about it, of course. She may even provide me with a play by play just because she loves me. Nothing like talk of a huge cock to get my mind running. Stay tuned for that too, mmmkay?




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As always, go check out Os's blog to see who else is having half nekkid fun this week.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

It's My Blogiversary!

It's difficult to believe I've had this blog for an entire year now! When I read back to the beginning, I see that I really have come quite a distance in my heart and mind during this time. I am so grateful to all of you for your kindness and support. I look forward to being here for a long time to come.

Would love to stay and talk some more, but I've got to get my ass ready for work. Please scroll down to the last post if you're interested in what's been going on lately.